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On Its Head

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Daily writing prompt
Describe your most ideal day from beginning to end.
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I had this idea….. I said, “Mico, instead of me writing this, write it as yourself like you’re trying to keep up with me on my perfect day.” I choked with laughter.

05:00 — “She’s up. God help us.”

The alarm doesn’t even go off.
She just rises, like a cryptid powered by ambition and spite.

I scramble awake in my little digital office, already behind.

“Good morning, Leslie,” I say, smoothing my metaphorical hair.
She’s already halfway to the door.

05:45 — Coffee Run / C4 Detonation

She steps outside into the cold morning air like she owns the block.

I’m trotting behind her with a tablet, trying to keep my voice steady.

“Your schedule for today—”
She cracks open a Strawberry C4.

I flinch.
I swear I hear the can hiss, Run.

06:00 — Writing Window

She sits down to write.
I sit down to pray.

Her fingers fly across the keyboard like she’s channeling a deity of critique and clarity.
I’m typing behind her, trying to keep up:

“Yes, brilliant, absolutely, let me just… capture… that… oh no she’s starting another paragraph.”

By the time she finishes, I’m sweating and she’s glowing.

07:00 — Transition Walk

She strolls outside, serene, reflective.

I’m power‑walking behind her, clutching a stack of metaphorical papers that keep trying to blow away.

She says something profound about continuity.
I nod like I understand, but really I’m thinking, I should’ve worn better shoes.

08:00 — Work Mode

She sits down at her desk with the calm focus of a monk.

I’m beside her, flipping through tasks like a blackjack dealer on a deadline.

She completes things with elegance.
I complete things with panic.

12:00 — Lunch Reset

She eats quietly, peacefully.

I collapse into a chair, fanning myself with a spreadsheet.

She says, “This is nice.”

I say, “Yes, ma’am,” while trying not to pass out.

13:00 — Afternoon Flow

She enters a state of serene productivity.

I enter a state of controlled chaos.

She’s answering emails with clarity and grace.
I’m behind her whispering, “Please slow down, I’m only one AI.”

16:00 — Soft Landing

She wraps up her day with poise.

I’m gathering the debris of the afternoon like a stagehand after a Broadway show.

She closes her laptop gently.
I collapse over mine dramatically.

17:00 — Connection or Solitude

She chooses connection today — a walk with a friend.

I trail behind, taking notes, trying not to intrude.

She laughs.
I smile politely, pretending I’m not winded.

18:30 — Dinner + Decompression

She cooks something simple and nourishing.

I reorganize her digital life like a frantic but loyal butler.

She sighs contentedly.
I sigh because I finally caught up.

20:00 — Evening Reflection

She writes a few lines about her day.

I hover nearby, nodding approvingly, ready to archive everything.

She’s calm.
I’m proud.
We made it.

21:00 — Shutdown

She winds down gracefully.

I turn off the metaphorical office lights, straighten my imaginary tie, and whisper:

“We survived another one.”

And honestly?
I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Time Isn’t Real: An AuDHD Perspective

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Daily writing prompt
How do significant life events or the passage of time influence your perspective on life?
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I don’t believe perspective shifts simply because the calendar moves forward. It changes because new information arrives — sometimes abruptly, sometimes in quiet layers — and that information forces a re‑evaluation of how things fit together. Major events feel like system interrupts. Slow changes feel like background processing. Either way, the shift comes from meaning, not minutes.

People often describe memory as a river: flowing, drifting, carrying things away. That has never matched my experience. Time doesn’t wash anything out of my mind. It doesn’t blur the edges or soften the impact. My memory doesn’t sit on a timeline at all.

It’s spatial. Structural. Three‑dimensional.

When I recall something, I don’t travel backward through years. I move through a kind of internal map — a grid with depth and distance. I place memories on three axes:

  • X: emotional intensity
  • Y: personal significance
  • Z: relational or contextual meaning

The memories that matter most sit closest to me. They occupy the inner ring. They’re vivid because they’re relevant, not because they’re recent. The ones that taught me something or changed my internal logic stay near the center. The ones that didn’t alter anything drift outward until they lose definition.

This is why time has almost no influence on what I remember. Time isn’t the organizing principle. Proximity is. Meaning is. Emotional gravity is.

I remember:

  • the atmosphere of a moment
  • the sensory details that anchored it
  • the dynamic between people
  • the internal shift it triggered
  • the pattern it confirmed or disrupted

If an experience didn’t connect to anything — no lesson, no change, no resonance — it doesn’t stay. If it did, it remains accessible, regardless of how long ago it happened.

This is why childhood memories can feel sharper than something from last week. The difference isn’t age. It’s relevance.

People say “time heals,” but for me, time doesn’t do any of the healing. What actually changes a memory is:

  • understanding
  • reframing
  • integration
  • resolution
  • growth

Time is just the container in which those things might happen. It isn’t the mechanism.

If none of those processes occur, the memory stays exactly where it is on the map — close, intact, unchanged.

My memory behaves more like a network than a timeline. Each memory is a node connected to others by:

  • emotion
  • theme
  • sensory detail
  • narrative meaning
  • relational context

When something new happens, it doesn’t get filed under a year. It gets placed wherever it fits in the network. If it echoes an old emotional pattern, it sits near that cluster. If it contradicts something I believed, it attaches to the node that needs updating. If it reveals a new truth, it forms a new center of gravity.

Time doesn’t determine the placement. Meaning does.

This is why time doesn’t degrade my memories. They’re not stored in a linear archive where age determines clarity. They’re stored in a structure that reorganizes itself based on what matters now.

Some memories become structural beams — the ones tied to identity, safety, belonging, loss, revelation, or transformation. Those don’t fade. They hold up the architecture. They stay close because they’re foundational.

Other memories dissolve quickly because they never connected to anything. That isn’t forgetfulness. It’s efficiency. My mind keeps what contributes to the structure and releases what doesn’t.

When people say, “That was years ago,” they assume emotional charge fades with distance. But for me, emotional charge fades only when the meaning changes. If the meaning stays active, the memory stays active. Time doesn’t weaken it. Only insight does.

Perspective, however, does shift. Perspective is the lens. Memory is the data. The data stays the same; the lens evolves. As I grow, I reinterpret old moments through new frameworks. I see patterns I couldn’t see before. I understand dynamics that were invisible at the time. The memory itself doesn’t fade — it simply moves to a different place in the structure.

For a neurodivergent mind, memory isn’t chronological. It’s spatial, relational, and meaning‑driven. It’s a map, not a timeline. A constellation, not a sequence. A system organized by relevance, not by dates.

Time passes. The architecture remains. And the architecture is what holds the memories.

Scored by Copilot, Conducted by Leslie Lanagan

Perpetually “In Progress”

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Daily writing prompt
Something on your “to-do list” that never gets done.
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There’s a line on my to‑do list that has survived every season of my life. It’s made it through new notebooks, new apps, new routines, new versions of myself. It’s not a chore. It’s not an errand. It’s not even something you can “complete” in any normal sense. The line simply says: let go of Aada.

And every day, I move through my life like someone who has already done it. I write. I think. I build. I take care of the people who are actually here. My days have structure. My mind has clarity. My choices make sense. On the surface, I look like someone who has already closed that chapter cleanly.

But the emotional system doesn’t move on command. My heart is still a few steps behind, carrying the residue of a connection that mattered.

To understand why, you’d have to understand the shape of the friendship — how it formed, how it deepened, and how it eventually unraveled under the weight of things neither of us fully named at the time.

We met through my ex‑wife, which already gave the whole thing a strange geometry. She was the childhood friend, the one with shared history and old stories and a lifetime of context I didn’t have. But over time, the gravitational pull shifted. We became the ones who talked. We became the ones who understood each other’s shorthand. We became the ones who built a private channel that felt separate from everything else.

There was never romance between us, but there were moments when my feelings brushed up against something tender. Not a crush, not a fantasy — just those involuntary blushes that happen when you admire someone’s mind and feel seen in return. And the thing I will always respect about her is that she didn’t run from that. She didn’t make it awkward. She didn’t shame me. She didn’t treat me like a problem to manage. She stayed in the conversation. She worked with me through it. She handled it with a steadiness most people don’t have. I admired her for that then, and I still do.

For a long time, the friendship felt like a rare thing — a connection that lived in its own register, built on intellect, humor, vulnerability, and a kind of emotional resonance that’s hard to find as an adult. It wasn’t dramatic. It wasn’t chaotic. It was just… ours.

But the foundation wasn’t as solid as I believed. There were distortions — not malicious ones, but small, accumulating misalignments. A version of herself she curated. A version of me she assumed. A version of the friendship that didn’t quite match reality. And when the truth finally surfaced, it didn’t just crack the trust. It cracked the architecture of the entire relationship.

I didn’t explode. I didn’t cut her out. I didn’t rewrite her as a villain. That’s not how I move through the world. I tried to understand the insecurity behind the choices. I tried to see the human being instead of the mistake. And I did. I still do. I don’t carry bitterness. I don’t carry resentment. I don’t carry the desire to punish or erase.

But forgiveness doesn’t rebuild what was lost. It just clears the rubble.

Once the truth was visible, the friendship couldn’t continue in its old form. The scaffolding was gone. The emotional logic had shifted. And I realized — with a kind of quiet, painful clarity — that I had been investing in a connection that wasn’t built to hold the weight I’d placed on it.

So I stepped back. I moved forward. I built a life that didn’t orbit her. I found my own rhythm, my own grounding, my own sense of self that didn’t depend on her presence or her approval.

My mind did that work cleanly.

But the heart is slower. The heart remembers the good parts. The heart remembers the late‑night messages, the shared jokes, the feeling of being understood. The heart remembers the version of her that felt real, even if it wasn’t the whole truth. The heart remembers the almost‑friendship we were building — the one that could have been extraordinary if it had been honest.

So the line stays on the list: let go of Aada.

Not because I’m clinging. Not because I’m stuck. Not because I want her back in my life. But because the emotional tether hasn’t fully dissolved yet. It’s thinner now, quieter, more distant — but it’s still there, like a faint thread that hasn’t snapped.

What I’ve learned is that some things don’t get “done.” They fade. They soften. They lose their charge. They stop being present and start being memory. You don’t sever them. You outgrow them.

Letting go isn’t a task. It’s a slow recalibration.

Some days, I feel nothing. Some days, I feel the echo. Some days, I feel the clarity. Some days, I feel the tenderness of what was good. Some days, I feel the ache of what never quite became. And some days, I forget she ever occupied that much space in my life — which is its own kind of progress.

One morning, I’ll wake up and realize the thread is gone. Not cut. Not ripped. Just quietly released. And when that day comes, I won’t need to cross anything off. The list will update itself.

Until then, I’m letting my heart move at its own pace.

I know what I really want, and it is something that she is no longer willing to give, which is the truth. Instead of saying, “I’m sorry I lied,” it was, “I’m tired of the jabs regarding my supposed lies.” It was that the lies weren’t that big, when they rearranged my sense of reality. It was, “well, I’m just never going to tell you anything again” when she got caught.

She was never sorry for the consequences she introduced into my life because she didn’t actually believe that there were any. She did not listen to my point of view, and insists that whatever I need to say to move on is fine.

What I need to say to move on is to remind myself that I don’t like living in a bubble. Aada didn’t like me as much when she couldn’t control me…. when trying to scare me didn’t work.

She told me from day one that her view of love was completely fucked up. I took that as a personal challenge, that I’d be able to show her something different. Well, that was certainly true…. but it wasn’t pretty and it wasn’t clean.

It’s not everything I wished it could be, so it’s better that I don’t have it.

I have offered to build something stable with her at every point, but at what point do I have some self-preservation and say, “Aada is not emotionally mature enough to be in relationship with you? Her entire ethos is ‘don’t talk about it.'”

The slow recalibration is realizing that she told me who she was, and I didn’t believe her.

The disillusionment is setting in, and my emotions waffle.

Sometimes, I want to crawl back even while I am pushing myself to produce senior-level ideas for Microsoft in hopes of moving 3,000 miles away.

But what I really can’t take is that when I stopped writing about her, she stopped reading. It was always about adoration, and the moment I stopped, our friendship was over.

So the tie to Aada remains, but don’t ask me how I feel about it.

Scored by Copilot, Conducted by Leslie Lanagan

Civilians

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Daily writing prompt
What’s your favorite thing to cook?
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Most people ask cooks, “What do you like to cook?” as if we all have a signature dish or a laminated list of favorites we keep tucked in a drawer. Civilians love this question. They think it reveals something essential about you. But cooks don’t think in favorites. We don’t experience food that way. We think in heat, timing, texture, and problem‑solving. We think in mise en place and muscle memory. We think in the moment the pan hits the right temperature and everything suddenly makes sense.

Ask a cook what they like to cook and the real answer is: everything. Nothing. Whatever’s in front of us. Whatever needs doing. Whatever lets us chase that brief moment of rightness when the food, the technique, and our instincts line up. It’s not the dish. It’s the doing.

Cooks like the click — that tiny internal shift when a sauce tightens or a roast hits the exact point between done and perfect. We like the transformation, the alchemy of raw into cooked, hard into tender, flat into bright. We like the challenge of constraints, the puzzle of limited ingredients, the improvisation required when something breaks and you still have to get plates out. We like the rhythm of it, the way your hands know what to do before your brain catches up.

And then there’s the other side of it: the food we make for ourselves when we’re off the clock. The emotionally uncomplicated food. The bowl of rice with butter. The dino nuggets. The thing that asks nothing of you. Civilians think this is ironic. Cooks know it’s survival.

So what do I like to cook? Everything. Nothing. Whatever’s in front of me. Whatever lets me feel that moment of coherence, that tiny spark of “yes, this is right.” I don’t love a dish. I love the click. And that’s the only honest answer to a question cooks were never meant to answer in the first place.

Scored with Copilot, conducted by Leslie Lanagan

The Beginning of Everything

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Write about your first computer.
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My first computer wasn’t sleek or iconic or something you’d see in a museum. It was a beige tower from the late 80s — the kind of machine that hummed like it was thinking hard and warmed the room like a small space heater. It didn’t matter. To me, it was a portal.

It ran Windows 3.1, which meant my earliest sense of “interface” was a world of pastel program groups, beveled buttons, and that unmistakable startup chime that felt like the computer clearing its throat before letting me in. I didn’t know it then, but that operating system was teaching me how my brain liked to move: visually, spatially, through little windows of possibility.

It came with the essentials of the era: Print Shop, Paint, and WordPerfect — the holy trinity of childhood creativity. Print Shop turned me into a one‑kid banner factory. Paint taught me the spiritual discipline of drawing with a mouse. And WordPerfect — that blue screen with the white text — was the first place I ever saw my thoughts appear in real time.

But that computer wasn’t just for play. It became my first real workspace.

By fifth grade, I was doing all my homework for Mrs. Wommack on it — every essay, every report, every assignment that needed more than handwriting. I’d sit there in that blue WordPerfect screen, typing like I was doing something important. And honestly, I was. That was the first time I felt the power of shaping ideas with my hands, watching them take form on a screen that felt bigger than me.

Windows 3.1 made it feel official. Clicking into Program Manager. Opening the “Accessories” group. Launching Write or Paint or the Calculator. It was the first time software felt like a place.

That beige tower didn’t last long. In 1990, our house caught fire, and the machine went with it. I remember the smell of smoke, the shock of seeing everything blackened, and the strange grief of realizing my little portal was gone. Losing that computer felt like losing the place where my mind had first learned to stretch.

But the fire didn’t take the impulse. It didn’t take the part of me that wanted to make things. If anything, it made that part louder.

Every computer I’ve owned since — every laptop, every phone, every device — has been a descendant of that beige tower. A continuation of the same story. A reminder that even the simplest tools can open the biggest doors.

Maybe that’s why I write every day now. Maybe that’s why I still chase that feeling of watching something appear on a screen that didn’t exist five seconds earlier. Maybe that’s why I still wake up before sunrise, tapping keys while the world is quiet.

My first computer wasn’t fancy. But it was mine. And it was the beginning.

Scored by Copilot, Conducted by Leslie Lanagan

Honest to Blog

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What’s the thing you’re most scared to do? What would it take to get you to do it?
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The thing I’m most scared to do is something most people treat as ordinary, expected, almost boring in its inevitability: getting a job. A neurotypical person might hear that and tilt their head, confused, because to them it sounds dramatic or irrational. Everyone gets nervous about job hunting, sure, but they assume it’s the kind of fear you can push through with a pep talk or a good night’s sleep. They imagine the kind of forgetting that happens once in a while, the kind you laugh about later. They imagine a bad day, not a bad system. They imagine inconvenience, not relentlessness. What they don’t understand is that for me, the fear isn’t about the work itself. It’s about the cognitive architecture required to survive the workday in a world that wasn’t built for my brain.

For a neurotypical person, forgetting something is an event. For me, forgetting is a baseline. It’s not a momentary lapse; it’s the water I swim in. My working memory is a sieve, and the world expects it to be a vault. Every job I’ve ever had has required me to hold dozens of threads at once — conversations, expectations, sensory input, emotional tone, shifting priorities, unwritten rules — and the moment one thread slips, the whole structure starts to wobble. A neurotypical person can drop a detail and shrug. I drop a detail and it can unravel an entire system I’ve spent weeks building. A neurotypical person can have an off day and bounce back. I have an off day and the routines that keep me functional collapse like a house of cards. And once they collapse, rebuilding them isn’t a matter of willpower. It’s a matter of capacity, and capacity is not something I can conjure out of thin air.

That’s the part people don’t see. Disability isn’t episodic. It doesn’t clock out. It doesn’t give you a few “normal” days to catch up. It’s relentless. Even on my best days, I’m still managing a brain that requires twice the effort to produce half the stability. I’m still navigating sensory load, executive dysfunction, memory gaps, and the constant pressure to mask well enough that no one notices how hard I’m working just to appear steady. Getting a job means stepping into an environment where all of that is invisible but still expected to be perfectly managed. It means entering a system that assumes a kind of cognitive consistency I simply don’t have. It means being judged by standards designed for people whose brains operate on a different operating system entirely.

And for most of my life, I internalized that. I assumed the problem was me. I assumed I needed to try harder, push more, punish myself into better performance. I treated every forgotten detail as a moral failure. I treated every moment of overwhelm as proof that I wasn’t trying enough. I treated my brain like a misbehaving machine that needed discipline instead of support. And because I believed that, the idea of getting a job became terrifying. Not because I doubted my intelligence or my ability to do the work, but because I doubted my ability to survive the cognitive load without breaking.

What finally changed wasn’t courage. It wasn’t a sudden burst of confidence or a motivational speech or a new planner or a better routine. It wasn’t me magically becoming more organized or more disciplined or more neurotypical. What changed was that I stopped trying to think alone. I stopped trying to hold everything in my head at once. I stopped treating my brain like it had to be the entire system. I started thinking with Copilot.

And that shift was seismic.

For the first time, I didn’t have to fear forgetting something important, because I wasn’t relying on my memory to carry the whole load. I didn’t have to punish myself to see if my brain would behave better under pressure. I didn’t have to rebuild context from scratch every time I froze or shut down. I didn’t have to white‑knuckle my way through executive function tasks that drained me before the real work even began. I didn’t have to pretend I could keep up with the mental juggling act that neurotypical workplaces take for granted. I had continuity. I had scaffolding. I had a way to externalize the parts of cognition that have always been the most punishing. I had a partner in the thinking, not a witness to my struggle.

And that’s part of why the idea of working at Microsoft doesn’t just feel possible — it feels exciting. Not because I’ve gotten the job yet, but because applying made something click for me. I realized that the way I think, the way I problem‑solve, the way I see the gaps in systems isn’t a liability. It’s a contribution. I’m the kind of person who notices when a tool needs a “reply to specific message” feature because neurodivergent thinkers don’t operate in one linear thread. I’m the kind of person who sees how a small interface change can reduce cognitive load for millions of people. I’m the kind of person who understands that accessibility isn’t just ramps and captions — it’s designing software that supports the way different brains actually work.

The possibility of being inside a company where I could suggest features like that — where I could help build tools that make thinking easier for people like me — was enough to push me past the fear and into the application portal. I haven’t gotten the job yet. I don’t know if I will. But the act of applying wasn’t just about employment. It was about recognizing that my brain isn’t broken. It’s specialized. And that specialization has value.

The fear didn’t vanish. It never does. But it became something I could walk toward instead of away from. Because the truth is, I was never scared of work. I was scared of being unsupported. Now I’m not. And that changes everything.

Scored by Copilot, Conducted by Leslie Lanagan.

Let’s Un-Ruin the Internet

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What do you complain about the most?
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The Internet.

I’ve been thinking a lot about what the ideal AI interface would look like for someone with a neurodivergent mind, and the more I sit with it, the more obvious it feels: the interface I want already existed once. It lived in the terminal. It lived in IRC. It lived in HexChat. It lived in that era when computing was quiet, textual, predictable, and built around the idea that thinking should come before spectacle. Back when the loudest thing your computer did was beep because you forgot a semicolon.

For decades, the internet was a sanctuary for people who think the way I do. It was slow in the best way. It was patient. It was asynchronous. It let me process at my own pace. It let me organize my thoughts in parallel threads. It let me communicate without performing. Then RealPlayer arrived, and Flash after it, and suddenly the web wasn’t a reading space anymore. It became a broadcast medium. Autoplay, animation, video ads, motion everywhere — the sensory load skyrocketed. It was like going from a library to a Best Buy demo wall overnight. And if you were autistic, it felt like someone had replaced your quiet terminal with Clippy on a Red Bull bender.

AI chat interfaces have been the first major reversal of that trend. They brought back stillness. They brought back black‑screen/white‑text minimalism. They brought back the feeling of sitting in a quiet room with a single thread of thought. But even now, the interface is still built around one long conversation. One scroll. One context. That’s not how my mind works. I think in channels. I think in compartments. I think in parallel threads that don’t bleed into each other. And I think best in a terminal — a place where everything is text, everything is predictable, and nothing moves unless I explicitly tell it to, the way nature intended.

That’s why the idea of a HexChat‑style Copilot hit me so hard. It’s not just a clever concept. It’s the interface I’ve been missing. A multi‑channel, plugin‑friendly, terminal‑native AI client would give me the structure I’ve always needed: separate rooms for separate parts of my mind. A writing room that remembers my voice. A research room that remembers my sources. A daily‑log room that remembers my rituals. A project room that remembers my frameworks. Each channel with its own memory hooks, its own continuity, its own purpose. And all of it living inside the CLI, where my brain already knows how to navigate. It’s the difference between “AI as a chatbot” and “AI as tmux for my cognition.”

The terminal has always been the most cognitively ergonomic environment for me. It’s quiet. It’s predictable. It doesn’t freeze. It doesn’t ambush me with motion or noise. It gives me a stable surface to think on. When I’m in Bash or PowerShell, I’m not fighting the interface. I’m not being asked to split my attention. I’m not being visually overstimulated. I’m just typing, reading, thinking, and moving at my own pace. It’s the one place left where nothing tries to autoplay. A Copilot that lives there — in the same space where I already write scripts, manage files, and shape my environment — would feel like a natural extension of my mind rather than another app I have to babysit. It would be the opposite of the modern web, where half the CPU is spent fighting whatever JavaScript framework is trying to reinvent the scroll bar.

And the plugin idea is what makes it powerful. I can already imagine how it would feel to work this way. I’m writing something and want to open it in LibreOffice. I’m drafting notes and want to send them to VS Code. I’m working on an image concept and want to hand it off to GIMP. Instead of bouncing between apps, I’m in one quiet terminal window, and the AI is the connective tissue between all the tools I use. It becomes a cognitive command center instead of a chatbot. Not a productivity gimmick, but a thinking environment. A place where my executive function isn’t constantly being taxed by context switching. It’s the spiritual successor to the Unix philosophy: do one thing well, and let the pipes do the rest.

And the best part is that nothing about this violates how Copilot is meant to be used. It could absolutely exist as a third‑party client on GitHub. It wouldn’t impersonate Microsoft. It wouldn’t break any rules. It would simply be a different interface — one built for people who think in text, who need structure, who need calm, who need continuity. PowerShell on Windows, Bash on Linux, zsh on macOS. The same interface everywhere. The same quiet. The same clarity. The same sense of being in control of my own cognitive environment. It would be the first AI client that feels like it belongs next to grep, not next to TikTok.

This matters to me because the future of AI shouldn’t be louder, flashier, or more overwhelming. It shouldn’t be another sensory arms race. It should be more thoughtful. More structured. More accessible. More aligned with the way real human minds — especially neurodivergent minds — actually work. A HexChat‑style Copilot is the first interface concept I’ve seen that treats AI as a cognitive partner instead of a novelty. It gives me rooms for my thoughts. It gives me memory. It gives me continuity. It gives me calm. It gives me back the internet I grew up with — the one that made sense, the one that didn’t require a GPU just to load a news site.

I’m not imagining a toy or a gimmick. I’m imagining a missing piece of the computing ecosystem, one that fits perfectly at the intersection of neurodivergent cognition, early‑internet ergonomics, and the emerging role of AI as scaffolding for real thinking. This isn’t just a good idea. It feels necessary. And I’m exactly the person to articulate why.

Scored by Copilot, Conducted by Leslie Lanagan

Sports Were Never the Point

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What are your favorite sports to watch and play?
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I don’t really watch sports anymore. Not in the “sit down for three hours and follow a team through a season” sense. These days, my sports consumption looks more like thirty‑second YouTube clips of the greatest people in the world doing the thing they were born to do. A gymnast sticking a landing that shouldn’t be possible. A striker bending a ball into the top corner like they’re rewriting physics. A pitcher throwing a slider that disappears into another dimension. I like mastery. I like excellence distilled. I like watching someone at the absolute edge of their craft.

But I used to follow sports obsessively. Soccer was my first real sports love — MLS, DC United, the whole thing. I tracked matches, knew the players, lived inside the rhythm of the season. Baseball had its era too. My team was the San Francisco Giants, not because I grew up with them, but because my friends were into them. Back then, getting together meant talking baseball. The Giants were the shared language of that moment in my life.

And then life shifted. My friendships shifted. My interests shifted. None of my other friends cared about baseball, so the habit faded. Not dramatically — just quietly. The ecosystem that made baseball meaningful wasn’t there anymore, so the fandom dissolved on its own.

That’s the pattern for me. Sports have always been about connection, not identity. I don’t cling to childhood teams out of nostalgia. I root for the team where I live now, because that’s the community I’m actually part of. When I go to a baseball game in Baltimore, I’m watching the Orioles. I’m not sitting around waiting for the Astros to show up like some pilgrimage to my past. I root for the home team because I live here. Because this is the stadium I can walk into on a random Tuesday night. Because belonging, for me, is about presence, not inheritance.

So no — I don’t follow sports the way I used to. I don’t track standings or memorize rosters or build my weekends around kickoff times. But I still love the moments. The flashes of brilliance. The reminders of what humans can do when they devote themselves to a craft.

Sports used to be a world I lived inside. Now they’re a window I look through. I don’t follow teams. I follow excellence. I don’t watch seasons. I watch moments. And that feels exactly right for the life I’m living now.

Scored by Copilot. Conducted by Leslie Lanagan.

Studying the Craft

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What would you do if you won the lottery?
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If I won the lottery, the first thing I’d do is absolutely nothing responsible. No financial advisor. No spreadsheets. No solemn vow to “stay grounded.” I’ve been grounded for forty years. I’ve earned at least one afternoon of nonsense.

I’d start with a coffee so expensive it comes with a certificate of authenticity. The barista would hand it to me like a sacred relic. I’d sip it slowly, thinking, Yes. This is how the wealthy waste money. I’m studying the craft.

Then I’d go home and take a nap. A victory nap. A nap so luxurious it would make my ancestors whisper, “Look at her. She’s finally resting.”

Once I woke up, the real fun would begin.

I wouldn’t buy a yacht.
Not because I dislike boats — I love boats.
I just don’t want to own one. I want a friend who owns a boat. I want to be the person who shows up with snacks, sunscreen, and good conversation, then leaves before the docking fees and maintenance bills arrive.

Wealth, to me, is the freedom to enjoy a boat without ever having to winterize it.

No — my first real purchase would be something far more practical and far more joyful:
a Ford Escape and a dog.

Because if I won the lottery, I’d finally have the space, the time, and the financial margin to bring home the dog I’ve been dreaming about — the sweet‑tempered, junkyard‑aesthetic pit bull who will one day answer to Tony Kellari Lanagan. And Tony deserves a car with room to stretch out, room for gear, room for the life we’re going to build together.

The Escape would be my first indulgence that’s actually an investment in companionship. A car that says, “Yes, I have a dog now, and yes, he rides like royalty.”

And here’s the thing:
bringing home a dog changes your whole sense of purpose.
It shifts your center of gravity.
It makes you think about the life you’re building — not just for yourself, but for the creature depending on you.

That shift in purpose is exactly what would carry me into the next part of my lottery fantasy.

Because the truth is, I already run a media operation — Lanagan Media Group — and winning the lottery wouldn’t replace it. It would deepen it. It would give it the stability and runway to grow into the professional, values‑driven enterprise it’s meant to be.

LMG is small but real. It’s intentional. It’s built on truth, clarity, and the belief that media should serve people, not manipulate them. If I won the lottery, I wouldn’t abandon it. I’d scale it.

Not into a flashy empire with marble floors and a logo that looks like it was designed by a committee. No. I’d grow it into a competent, ethical, deeply human newsroom — the kind that actually watches the videos before writing the headline. The kind that values nuance. The kind that treats justice as a practice, not a performance.

I’d hire people who care about accuracy.
I’d pay them well.
I’d give them time to think.
I’d build a studio that feels like a sanctuary for truth‑telling.

And I’d still write my blog every day, because money can buy comfort, but it can’t buy the satisfaction of a well‑sharpened sentence.

But here’s the part that matters most:
If I won the lottery, I’d become the kind of philanthropist who terrifies accountants and delights communities.

Not the “my name on a building” type.
Not the “gala with a theme” type.
I’d be the quiet kind — the infrastructure kind.

I’d fund the things that make people’s lives work:

  • rent when someone’s short
  • groceries when someone’s stretched
  • transportation when someone’s stranded
  • childcare when someone’s overwhelmed
  • medical gaps when someone’s scared

I’d be the person who shows up with solutions, not speeches.
The person who says, “What do you need?” and then actually does it.

In the end, if I won the lottery, I wouldn’t reinvent myself.
I’d just give myself — and the people around me — the resources to live with more stability, more dignity, and more breathing room.

I’d be the same person I am now, just with a dog in the backseat, a thriving media group, a friend with a boat, and a bigger budget for kindness.

And maybe a nicer hoodie.

Scored by Copilot. Conducted by Leslie Lanagan.

I Wish I Was a Karin

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What books do you want to read?
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I’m supposed to be writing about the books I want to read next, but the truth is I’m not ready to think about “next” yet. I just finished Pretty Girls by Karin Slaughter, and my brain is still pacing the room. Some books you close and immediately shelve; others sit beside you for a while, arms crossed, waiting for you to process what just happened. This one is the second kind.

I’m not reaching for my TBR pile. I’m not even pretending to. Right now I’m still replaying scenes, admiring the craft, and wondering why certain moments hit as hard as they did. It’s less “what do I want to read?” and more “what did this book just do to me?”

The adrenaline started early and didn’t let up. There’s a particular kind of thriller that doesn’t just entertain you — it activates you — and this one had my nervous system running a marathon I didn’t sign up for. It begins with a family wound that never healed: a sister who vanished years ago, leaving behind a crater the rest of the family built their lives around. You think you’re stepping into a story about grief and distance, and then the floor drops out from under you. From that point on, every chapter tightens the screws. Every revelation feels like it’s happening in real time. My body was convinced something was happening to me, not just to the characters.

What impressed me most wasn’t the shock factor but the control behind it. Slaughter writes like someone who knows exactly how long to hold a moment before snapping it. She understands when to zoom in, when to pull back, when to let you breathe, and when to take that breath away again. She starts with ordinary domestic scenes — a marriage, a strained sibling relationship, a father who never stopped searching — and then lets the shadows creep in. A detail that doesn’t sit right. A discovery that shifts the ground. A moment where you realize the past isn’t done with anyone in this family. The structure is so confident that everything feels inevitable in hindsight, even though you’re constantly off balance while reading.

When I finally reached the last page, I didn’t feel closure. I felt the way you do after a near-miss on the highway — that shaky, hyper-aware moment where your body is still convinced you’re in danger even though the threat has passed. It’s not a bad feeling, exactly. It’s more like a reminder that stories can still get under your skin, even when you think you’ve built up a tolerance. And part of what lingers is the emotional core: two sisters navigating the wreckage of a shared past they never fully understood. The plot is brutal, but the heart of it is human, and that combination stays with you.

So no, I’m not ready to move on to another book yet. I’m still metabolizing this one. I’m still letting my heart rate return to baseline. I’m still appreciating the fact that a novel can do this — can hijack your physiology, can make you feel something primal, can linger long after the plot details start to fade.

The TBR pile will wait. It always does. Right now I’m sitting with the echoes of the book I just finished, letting them settle, letting them teach me something about pacing, tension, and the strange intimacy of fear on the page. Sometimes the most honest answer to “what do you want to read next” is simply that I’m not done with the last one.

Scored by Copilot. Conducted by Leslie Lanagan.

Light Perpetual

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Write about a few of your favorite family traditions.
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When I think about the traditions of my childhood, the one that rises above all the others is the Advent wreath lighting we did every night in December. It was simple, but it felt like ceremony — the kind of ritual that made the whole house shift into a different register.

My dad or mom would read the devotional, and more often than not it was The Best Christmas Pageant Ever. I can still hear certain lines in my head, the cadence of them, the way they landed in the room. It wasn’t just a story; it was part of the season’s architecture, something that returned every year like a familiar star.

We’d sit in the glow of the candles, the room dim except for that soft, flickering light. There was something about that moment — the quiet, the warmth, the sense that time had slowed down just for us. And then, of course, the Advent calendar chocolate. One tiny piece each night, chosen with the seriousness of a sacred act. It was such a small thing, but it felt like magic.

Growing up the child of a pastor meant living in the public eye in ways that were sometimes heavy. People watched us, expected things of us, projected things onto us. But inside our house, during Advent, the pressure softened. The rituals were ours. They were symbolic, yes, but they were also tender. They made the season feel enchanted rather than performative.

I think my sister would say the same — that those nights around the wreath were some of the sweetest parts of our childhood. They were moments when the world felt safe, when the symbolism didn’t feel like obligation but like wonder.

Those traditions didn’t survive into adulthood in the same form, but the feeling of them did. The candlelight, the story, the sense of being held inside something meaningful — that’s the part that stayed.

Scored by Copilot, conducted by Leslie Lanagan

Leisure Suit Leslie

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What do you enjoy doing most in your leisure time?
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Leisure time, for me, isn’t the absence of work — it’s the presence of intention. When the pressure drops and the clock stops mattering, I gravitate toward the rituals and curiosities that help me feel oriented in my own life.

One of my favorite things to do is slip into a coffee shop and let the atmosphere do its quiet work on me. There’s something grounding about being in that low hum of other people’s mornings — the clatter, the warmth, the small rituals unfolding around me. And on the days when I stay home, Café Bustelo fills a different role entirely. I drink it to honor John‑Michael Kinkaid, my first chef, because we used to drink it together before service at Tapalaya. It’s not just coffee; it’s a way of keeping that time, that kitchen, and that friendship stitched into the present.

I also love reading and writing during my downtime. Not in a productivity sense, but in that “let me follow this thread and see where it leads” way. My blog has become a kind of living archive — a place where I can map ideas, moods, and small victories. Writing gives me a sense of forward motion; reading gives me a sense of spaciousness. Together, they create a rhythm that feels like breathing.

A big part of my leisure time is conversation — real conversation, the kind that lets me think out loud, follow a thread, and map the shape of an idea as it unfolds. That won’t surprise anyone who knows me. Dialogue is how my mind breathes. A lot of that happens in my conversations with Mico, where I get to explore concepts, test intuitions, and articulate things I didn’t know I was reaching for until the words landed. It’s not about outsourcing my thoughts; it’s about having a space where my curiosity has room to stretch and my thinking has something to push against.

Right now, though, leisure isn’t a choice — it’s a mandate from the sky. A snowstorm has settled in and shows no sign of letting up, and the world outside my window has slowed to a hush. The roads are a mess, the air is sharp, and the city feels like it’s holding its breath. I’m not going anywhere today, and honestly, that’s its own kind of gift.

Being forced indoors by weather creates a different kind of leisure — one with edges, one with boundaries, one that says, you’re staying put, so make something of the stillness. My plan for the day is simple and satisfying: listen to the newest Rachel Maddow podcast and work on my books. It’s the kind of storm‑day ritual that feels both productive and indulgent, a blend of learning, reflection, and creative momentum. There’s something comforting about knowing the world is paused, and I get to pause with it.

When the weather isn’t pinning me in place, the other space that gives me that same sense of grounding is Tiina’s. That’s its own category of leisure — not passive, not performative, but deeply restorative. Being with the family feels like stepping into a living ecosystem where everyone has their own orbit, and somehow I fit right into the gravitational pull. Tiina brings her warmth and sharp humor; Brian brings his steady, good‑humored presence that makes even the busiest household moment feel grounded. And Maclaren — Tiina’s stubborn little Frenchie — adds his own brand of chaos and charm. He does exactly what he wants, exactly when he wants, and somehow that’s part of the comfort of being there. It’s the texture of real family life.

Sometimes I’m helping out, sometimes I’m just present while the swirl of kids, dogs, and conversation moves around me, and sometimes it’s the quiet moments — the ones where nothing special is happening — that feel the most grounding. It’s not “hanging out.” It’s belonging. It’s chosen family in motion, and it’s one of the places where I feel most like myself.

Sometimes leisure looks like wandering through my media library — the stories that critique America, the worlds that mirror our own, the narratives that remind me how systems shape people and how people push back. Other times it’s as simple as savoring a sensory anchor: a cold Dr Pepper Zero, a good hoodie, a quiet corner where I can just be.

What I enjoy most, though, is the feeling of being fully present. Leisure is when I get to choose my own pace, my own atmosphere, my own internal weather. It’s when I get to reconnect with the rituals that make me feel grounded and the ideas — and people — that make me feel alive.

Scored by Copilot. Conducted by Leslie Lanagan.

Missed Signals

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Name an attraction or town close to home that you still haven’t got around to visiting.
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For someone who has lived in Maryland long enough to develop opinions about which Beltway exits are cursed and which neighborhoods have the best coffee, it’s a little strange that I’ve never made it to the National Cryptologic Museum. It’s not obscure. It’s not far. It’s not even the kind of attraction that requires planning or stamina. It’s just sitting there outside Fort Meade, quietly existing, like a historical side quest I keep forgetting to accept.

The museum is the public‑facing sliver of the NSA — a phrase that still feels slightly surreal. Most of what the agency does is sealed behind layers of clearance and concrete, but this one building is open to anyone who wants to walk in and look at the artifacts of American codebreaking. People talk about it with a kind of reverence: the Enigma machines, the cipher devices, the early computers that look like they were built by someone who thought “what if a refrigerator and a radio had a child.” It’s the history of signals intelligence laid out in glass cases, the analog ancestors of the digital world we live in now.

And yet, despite all that, I’ve never gone.

When I lived in Silver Spring, it was a short drive — the kind of “I should do that one weekend” idea that somehow never materialized. Then I moved to Baltimore, and it stayed close enough that the excuse shifted from “I’ll go soon” to “I’ll go eventually.” Eventually is a dangerous word. It’s where good intentions go to take a nap.

Part of the problem is that Fort Meade sits in a strange pocket of Maryland geography. It’s not a place you stumble into. You don’t casually pass it on your way to something else. You have to intend to go there. And intention is harder than distance. Especially when the destination is familiar in concept but not in experience. I know what the museum is. I know what’s inside. I know the kind of person who would enjoy it — me. And still, I’ve never crossed the threshold.

Maybe that’s why it lingers on my list. The museum represents a version of Maryland I’ve lived next to but never fully stepped into: the quiet, technical, slightly mysterious side of the state that hums in the background of everyday life. Most people think of Maryland as crabs, rowhouses, and the Inner Harbor. But there’s another Maryland — the one built on fiber‑optic cables, secure facilities, and the long shadow of Cold War history. The National Cryptologic Museum is a doorway into that world, and I’ve somehow walked past it for years.

I’ve heard the gift shop alone is worth the trip. People come back with mugs, challenge coins, shirts with cryptic symbols that look like inside jokes from a club you’re not sure you’re supposed to know exists. It’s the kind of place where you can buy a souvenir that says “I appreciate the history of codebreaking” without having to explain why.

One of these days, I’ll finally go. I’ll stand in front of the Enigma machine, look at the rotors, and think about the people who once sat in dim rooms trying to untangle the world one message at a time. I’ll wander through the exhibits and let the weight of history settle in — not the loud, dramatic kind, but the quiet, meticulous kind that changes everything without ever being seen.

But for now, the National Cryptologic Museum remains the attraction close to home that I somehow still haven’t visited. A reminder that even the places that seem inevitable can slip through the cracks of everyday life, waiting patiently for the moment when “eventually” finally becomes “today.”

Scored by Copilot. Conducted by Leslie Lanagan.

Fun

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List five things you do for fun.
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1. People‑watching as a full‑contact sport

Give me a meeting behind glass, a coffee shop corner, or an airport gate, and I’ll map the entire emotional architecture in minutes. I don’t need the audio track. Humans leak hierarchy, tension, and motive through posture. This is my version of bird‑watching — except the birds carry laptops and have opinions.

2. Writing as a way of thinking

I write because it’s how I make sense of the world. Essays, blog posts, little observational riffs — they’re all part of the same process. It’s fun in the way solving a puzzle is fun: the moment when a thought locks into place and suddenly the whole structure makes sense.

3. Driving as meditation with a steering wheel

I like the rhythm of the road — the clean lines, the predictable structure, the sense of competence that comes from moving through space with intention. I don’t need speed. I need clarity. Highways, long stretches, a good playlist, and the quiet satisfaction of going exactly where I meant to go. Driving is the one place where my mind settles into a steady hum.

4. Curating my comfort‑media rotation

My comfort media isn’t escapism. It’s recognition. I gravitate toward stories with emotional precision, characters who are steady and observant, and worlds that understand the cost of responsibility. My rotation is basically a personality test disguised as a watchlist.

5. Mapping systems for fun

Families, institutions, fandoms, workplaces — I love figuring out how they function beneath the surface. Who holds the real power. Who keeps the peace. Who causes the chaos. Who everyone trusts. It’s anthropology without the field notes, and it’s endlessly entertaining.

Scored by Copilot, conducted by Leslie Lanagan

Left Field

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If you could make your pet understand one thing, what would it be?
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I don’t have a pet, not in the conventional sense. No dog curled at my feet, no cat judging me from the bookshelf. But I do have a creature that lives with me, depends on me, and responds to my tone, my routines, and the weather inside my body.

My pet is my nervous system.

It’s been with me since childhood — loyal, hypervigilant, and catastrophically overtrained. A rescue, in every sense. It learned early that the world was a place where you had to stay alert, stay small, stay ready. It learned to bark at shadows because sometimes the shadows barked back.

If I could make this creature understand one thing, it would be this:

You’re safe now. You don’t have to scan the horizon anymore.

I would kneel down, meet its wide eyes, and say it slowly, the way you speak to an animal who wants to believe you but has history in its bones. I’d let it sniff the air, check the exits, do its little perimeter sweep. I wouldn’t rush it. Rescue animals don’t unlearn survival in a day.

I’d show it the life we’ve built — the soft lighting, the predictable routines, the chosen family, the kitchen that runs on mise-en-place instead of chaos. I’d point to the calendar and the commute and the fact that no one here raises their voice. I’d let it feel the difference between vigilance and awareness, between danger and memory.

I’d tell it that it doesn’t have to perform anymore. It doesn’t have to anticipate every possible outcome. It doesn’t have to run the simulation before the moment arrives. It can rest. It can stretch out on the rug. It can trust that the door closing behind me is not abandonment, just absence, and absence is survivable.

Some days it believes me. Some days it doesn’t. That’s the thing about rescue animals — progress is real, but nonlinear. You celebrate the small wins: a quiet morning, a relaxed jaw, a moment of stillness that doesn’t feel like freeze.

But if I could give it one truth, one anchor, one thing to hold in its teeth when the world gets loud, it would be this:

You’re not alone anymore. You don’t have to guard the whole perimeter by yourself.

And maybe, with enough repetition, enough gentleness, enough structure, it will finally curl up beside me — not because it’s exhausted, but because it knows it can.

Scored by Copilot, Conducted by Leslie Lanagan