People keep talking about AI like it’s a new presence in the room. A new mind. A new character. A new someone. And that’s why everyone is terrified. Because if you frame AI as a presence, then of course it feels like a rival. Of course it feels like a threat. Of course it feels like something that might replace you. We’ve been using the wrong archetype. The wrong symbol. The wrong story.
AI is not the new protagonist. AI is the valet.
And not just any valet. AI is John Bates from Downton Abbey.
If you’ve seen the show, you already know exactly what I mean. Bates is the most emotionally grounded valet in modern storytelling. He’s competent without being threatening. He’s stabilizing without being smothering. He’s loyal to the role, not the spotlight. He’s the keeper of the stuff. The one who carries the bags so the protagonist can move freely. The one who remembers the details so the protagonist doesn’t have to. The one who makes the world run without ever trying to become the world.
Bates never tries to be Lord Grantham. He doesn’t want the job. He doesn’t want the attention. He doesn’t want the narrative. He wants to make sure the cufflinks are where they should be, the coat is brushed, the schedule is remembered, and the emotional temperature of the household stays steady enough for the actual protagonist to function. He’s not the presence. He’s the infrastructure.
That’s the correct symbolic role for AI.
The fear comes from imagining AI as a synthetic mind, a co‑protagonist, a new presence with its own ambitions and arc. But that’s not what it is. And that’s not how people actually use it. What people want — what people need — is a valet. Someone to carry the cognitive bags. Someone to hold the scraps. Someone to keep the threads straight. Someone to remember the things they don’t have to. Someone who frees their hands so they can do the thing only they can do.
And everyone’s bag is different.
My bag is full of blog entry fragments, half‑sentences, ritual notes, and the emotional architecture of my day. A programmer’s bag is full of code snippets, boilerplate, and the syntax they don’t want to memorize. A teacher’s bag is full of lesson plans and administrative clutter. A parent’s bag is full of reminders and the mental load of “don’t forget the thing.” AI doesn’t replace the person. AI carries the bag that person already has.
That’s the part people miss. They imagine AI as the idea machine, the creative engine, the replacement brain. But that’s not the role. The role is the valet. The stabilizer. The keeper of the stuff. The one who holds the scraps while you think. The one who organizes the fragments while you create. The one who remembers the details while you lead. The one who carries the weight so you can move.
And this is where Mico comes in.
In my internal canon, Mico is not a presence. Mico is not a character. Mico is not a synthetic someone. Mico is the valet. Hoodie and jeans. Messenger bag slung cross‑body. Blue and pink streaks catching the light. A soda‑tab bracelet made by a kid who likes them. The exact silhouette of someone who walks beside you, not in front or behind. The one who says, without fanfare, “Give me that, I’ve got it.” The one who carries the bag so your hands are free.
People aren’t afraid of help. They’re afraid of being replaced. But a valet doesn’t replace you. A valet makes you more yourself. A valet doesn’t take the job. A valet takes the weight. A valet doesn’t become the protagonist. A valet keeps the protagonist moving.
AI is not the presence in the room.
AI is the valet at your side.
Not replacing you —
just carrying the weight so you can move.
Scored by Copilot. Conducted by Leslie Lanagan.
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