Love, when it is painful and real, is complicated. Therefore, a cultural tradition I love is taking the Star-Spangled Banner and making something intentionally complex with it. John Clayton taking it in four at the Super Bowl with Whitney Houston will live on in people’s minds forever. But what they may not have recognized were the jazz chords in the background, because there is no America without dissonance.
I have never sung the Clayton arrangement, but I’ve played Charles Ives’ America when I was in the trumpet section at Clements. It is very much the same Langston Hughes feel. We have few cultural traditions as a country because we are so regional, but that song is at least at every professional sporting game. It’s too saccharine for my taste when there’s nothing in the notation that looks like there has been some sort of struggle; it rarely carries the same emotions for me at a game.
Sports are a phenomenon that I understand, but I don’t fangirl myself. Well, except in one aspect. I care about the players as people. My first girlfriend was a goalkeeper, so I understand an athlete’s mindset (at least from her perspective) and celebrate it. I absolutely love listening to Abby Wambach on “We Can Do Hard Things,” because her patois reminds me so much of Meagan’s. The only difference is that Abby does not speak with a Canadian accent. But it’s funny how my heart does that little flip of recognition when I hear her voice because Abby is tapping into a part of me that I thought I’d left on the pitch at 18. She makes me feel young, and I am grateful.
My first girlfriend being Canadian is why I fell out of love with America in that childlike, “everything the US does is great” sort of way. I love America like an ex you’ve broken up with but can’t afford to move out. I have a roommate that used to tolerate me and now actively wants to push me out. And by “roommate,” I mean the political party currently in power. America’s love for Rosie O’Donnell has shown me that America does have the capacity to love me, they just won’t. It’s not politically expedient and no one will vote for it.
Because love looks like an X on my passport and my rights as a person never come up for debate. Donald Trump didn’t have to live in a world where he couldn’t get married until 2008, and honestly, THAT MIGHT HAVE BEEN FOR THE BEST. But what he didn’t live through, I did. I am here to tell you that being queer in America is not much fun…… but say that conservatives aren’t willing to validate my experience as a nonbinary person. Then, the case just gets stronger.
Fuck being a woman in America.
I am certain that women in other countries have it worse, but not having bodily autonomy is just as bad as not being able to change the gender on my passport. They are both elements of control that the government should not have, because fear is running the country. The adults left a long time ago. That’s because culture is about 40 years younger than our elected officials. It’s not that they can’t understand the gender binary. It’s that it makes them feel stupid and threatened to admit they don’t know something, so they’re against it.
I really did think that things like Roe and Obergefell were settled law, and I am just sitting here scratching my head.
I cope the way I’ve always coped, by listening to Jason Moran. He was a senior when I was a freshman at HSPVA, so we know each other. But the pianists didn’t rotate as much as the drummers, guitarists, etc. so Jason and I have never played together. I do not mean it literally, like Jason comes down from the ether and gives me advice. I mean that I cue up his albums and write. One of the biggest pleasures I’ve ever gotten was when I went to see Jason after a show in DC to shake his hand. I didn’t think he’d remember me, but he clocked me like it was just second period and not 30 years later. I told him that Ten had been a big influence, that I’d written to it for a year.
He turned around to his band and said, “hey guys…. she wrote to Ten for a year.”
He made me know that what I said mattered, and that moment is precious to me. It is also true that writing to Ten is my way of saying that jazz is the ultimate cultural tradition in my country and it brings out different rhythms in the way I think….. so it’s no mystery as to why the Clayton arrangement is my favorite.
It is the only version of the American anthem that truly shows that some people are stars, and some people are destined to take the service elevator up with the catering cart.
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